老人与小孩
November 3rd, 2006
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对于老人与小孩的关系, 我一直都拿捏得不好.
我是一个语言白痴. 和老人沟通, 最贴切的方法就是和他们说着同样的话. 每次和外婆说华语, 总觉得我们之间的距离被突然拉长扩大，中间多出了像上千万的幻灯片并列而排的不明物体. 尽管当时她只在我旁边. 好不容易把华语译成方言再挟着僵硬的表情，却临时突然卡在喉里出不来. 就像 charlie choplin 的默剧在上演着. 我们一众人到朋友家过夜, 家里的老人都不会缠着我说话的, 因为我不健谈说话也不讨喜. 我想, 在长辈们的印象里, 我是那种稍为记得有这个人存在却又不记得样子、 记得名字又不记得性格, 的那种人物吧!
我很喜欢小孩, 但我不懂小孩. 无可药救地不懂. 教家里的妹妹数学, 她不到半句钟就闹脾气躲起来了; 教别人家的孩子英文, 他居然跑回家告诉他妈妈他爱我… 这两种极端化的反应, 让我学会了另一种应对方式— 尽管是很可爱的小朋友, 我只会静静地看, 假装若无其事地. 结果, 我被小孩欺负了.
我想每件事情都有大自然它一定的规律, 就像有些人是个天生的沟通者. 对于老人与小孩的应对能力, 我想是与生俱来的吧!
treat them like how you treat your friend, but with more patient… =)
November 5, 2006 @ 12:13 pmfound ur website accidentally…enjoyed the things u wrote..maybe we can be net friends?? u can find out more about me through my web site…are u still in kota samarahan? i know this coz i searched for desa ilmu on the web…then i found ur website..i am interested in opening a pharamacy in desa ilmu kota samarahan..
hope to hear from u
lavenderguy@eric
November 8, 2006 @ 3:49 amp/s yes, i like lavender..=)
oh ya my web site add should b findingjuliet.blogspot.com, quite a while i haven;t update lor..busy mah..haha
November 8, 2006 @ 3:51 amw- patience is all i have besides stupidity and those wacko common sense,,,ah ooi ar, sometimes it just doesn’t click ar…
eric- hmm…lavender reminds me of the first job interview i failed… feel like wanna slamdunk the boss…don’t tell me u’re that lavender boss… ‘.’
November 22, 2006 @ 1:38 pmhi yeawen, happy 2007…haven;t dropped by here for a long time…how to contact u? mind give me ur email?
my handphone is 0168880218 feel free to sms me anytime about anything..
cheers
eric
January 18, 2007 @ 1:21 amp/s u haven;t answer my q yet, r u stil at kota samarahan? or graduated?
had my graduation last year…u can reach me at yeaw00n@yahoo.com
January 25, 2007 @ 5:33 am