就那么简单
December 20th, 2007
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你有没有很要好很要好的朋友? 那是我曾经喜欢问人的问题. 因为我总觉得我有很要好很要好的朋友可以炫耀. 那时候.
可是, 我发现这个问题开始变成一个自问自答的模式.
我有一个很棒的朋友. 人家说没有吵过架的, 不算是好朋友. 果然翻了一次脸, 隔着太平洋海我都清楚知道她在想什么. 我第一次离乡背井哭得稀里哗啦的时候, 拨的第一通电话就是她的.
我有一个可以说秘密的朋友. 我告诉她我初中第一个暗恋的小男生、高中班上那个令人讨厌的小器鬼. 她告诉我为什么男生都是chicken. 每一次的书信来往都是令人期待的. 尽管我们的家只距离二公里.因为里头总有一大堆我们自创的密码和符号.
我有一个可以和我一起笑傲江湖的朋友. 那时候的日子是无忧无虑的, 尽管考试只在眉间. 我们谈生活、谈理想、谈未来, 还有一大堆说好要一起实践的大计划. 那种志同道合的感觉好好.
我有一个很为人着想的朋友. 她教会我怎么戴隐形眼镜. 上课的日子还七早八早爬起来做三明治. 她让我学会拥抱, 还有把话说出来.
我有一个很豁达的朋友. 是他让我知道女生学会做菜的好处. 如果不是他, 我永远学不会宽容和体谅.
写华语的好处是, 你不需要把事情化成过去式、现代式、还是未来式.
我一直以为我把友情处理得完美无暇. 可是当我把问题问得越来越心虚的时候, 才发现原来这些都是自欺欺人的假象. 是我力不从心吗？ 是大家都很忙吗？还是我们都在装傻？
今年的圣诞愿望我要的不多， 只是一个知心朋友. 就那么简单.
i like this post. i also want 2 知心朋友. maybe 3 :P.
December 20, 2007 @ 1:59 pmkoko- haha, so greedy… i only want one….two also can…maybe 3… huahua…
December 21, 2007 @ 1:05 pma fren ever told me tht, once whn he is in trouble, he try to look for a number in his mobilephone to call for help, and he end up realise that he dont have a good fren to call to. tht’s sad.
to find some1 good n kind isnt easy, but once u found it ,it is all about an open heart and TRUST! i always hv no scret for my fren, i would tell them everything, my family, my personal life, tht’s why most of my frens they know me and my past very well. the more i share, the more good fren i get :) hope u’ll get wht u wish for tis year, MERRY CHRISTMAS =)
p/s: have u watch evan almighty? in tht movie it said tht, if u pray for courage, god wont give u courage, but give a chance to be brave, so if u r wish for good fren, im sure god will send some1, but u gotta grab it yourself :)
December 24, 2007 @ 3:30 amwan to find a sincere fren, u nid to step out 1st….. but sometimes, tis 1st step oso nobody noe…… not so pity, but at least u try up ady….. i always try and try to find and find…… never give up
1 sincere fren ady a very gud things in the world but y my sister and brother so greedy de??!! adui………………….. headache >
December 25, 2007 @ 12:55 pmmerry christmas! may ur wish come true
December 26, 2007 @ 4:16 am